Relationships are where most of life's friction lives. The arguments that loop. The distance that grows without anyone noticing. The feeling of being in the same room as someone and still feeling completely alone. If any of that sounds familiar, you're in the right place.
I work almost exclusively with the stuff that happens between people. Couples who feel like they're speaking different languages. Families where old resentments keep surfacing. Individuals who notice the same frustrating dynamics showing up in every relationship they enter. The specifics differ, but the underlying question is usually similar: why does this keep happening, and what can I actually do about it?
I'm not the type to sit back and nod along. I'll reflect things back to you, challenge assumptions when they need challenging, and help you see your partner or family member's perspective even when it's uncomfortable. Growth in relationships almost always requires looking at your own part in the pattern, and I'll support you through that process without making you feel judged for it.
Beyond relationships, I also spend a lot of time on topics like forgiveness, letting go of the need to control outcomes, and rebuilding trust after it's been damaged. These are slow, careful conversations, not quick fixes.
If your connections with the people who matter most feel strained or stagnant, I'd like to help you figure out what changed and what comes next. Sometimes a small shift in how you communicate can open up something entirely new.